My Wife Is About to Finish Maternity Leave | Everything Is Going to Change

Neither of us can quite believe that it’s come around this quick, but on Monday morning Rachel will go back to work after nine months of maternity leave.

And first up for her, a full week of induction. For me, that means Rachel will be out of the house, Monday to Friday, 8 till 6. As you can imagine, Rachel isn’t too happy about the prospect. I can’t even imagine quite how she feels. The most I’ve been away from work is 6 weeks, that’s nothing compared to her time. Suffice to say, she’s been a little bit like this:

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As for me, this means it will be the first time I’m going to be left with Isabelle for a prolonged period of time, which, if I’m totally honest, is something I’m a little bit worried about.

So What? You’re Her Dad

I see your point, even if you weren’t the one making it, but I know what people will be thinking. And there is of course a big part of me that thinks it’s going to be fine. But there’s also this other, albeit smaller part that’s worried that I’m going to struggle. You might already be aware that I don’t always cope all that well, so being the main carer for Isabelle for roughly ten hours a day is going to be tough.

I know that’s probably stupid, but that’s just how it is. I wish this came easy to me, I wish caring about people and spending time with them was something that I enjoyed more. But that’s not always my reality. I’m pretty good in short bursts, this will be a little bit more full on than that.

First up, Isabelle is going to have to be happy with the fact that boobs are off the menu. Instead, she’s going to be faced with slightly warmed breast milk being delivered via a cup. I have a funny feeling that when it comes to feeding time, and she notices the cup instead of the boobs, she’s going to look a little like this:

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And I can sympathise with that, a cup of milk is not the same as a boob! I wouldn’t accept the swap, so I wouldn’t blame Isabelle for her disappointment.

She’s also quite a hard baby to look after in the sense that she’s at that stage where she has no concept of danger. You put her down, and two seconds later she’s managed to find herself on the brink of being in mortal peril. It’s fun at times, but having to follow her around the house to ensure she doesn’t end up hanging off a book shelf, face planting the patio door, or being half way up the stairs is often a draining endeavour. Here she is half way up the stairs. Bad Isabelle.

Ok, I’ll admit that I have been showing her how to do this

Ultimately, I hope, and think, I’m going to be fine. At the end of the day I’m off work for a week looking after my daughter. That’s hardly a bad thing, and it’s a thing I just have to embrace and try not to run from mentally.

I usually get more stressed with Isabelle when she’s a little more demanding at a time where there’s something I want or need to do. But for this week, I’m going to take a little bit of advice I read by David of Dadvworld, and that’s be either ALL IN or ALL OUT. When I’m with Isabelle I’m going to just be with her. No checking my phone all the time, no writing and no blog related stuff. When she naps, then I’ll get my stuff done. But I have to have that separation in order to cope.

And if I do find myself struggling, I can always turn to this blog in the nights and write my thoughts out to help myself feel better. Just not whilst she’s trying to slide down the stairs backwards. I might also try making some videos each day and possibly either vlogging each day, or just get some stuff to do it at the end of the week. I do really need to get back into that. If you want a preview of something that’s going in a future vlog, here’s this:

Well, I guess that’s it. Monday morning our life is going to enter a new stage, one where Rachel becomes a working mum rather than a stay-at-home one, and a life where childcare actually becomes a real thing. I give Rachel four months before she wants to get pregnant again and have a ‘lovely’ 12 months off. Watch this space.


I’m a 27 year old married father of one – soon to be two! I started blogging after suffering with postnatal depression when Isabelle was born. These days I just talk about my life as a dad.

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  1. 13th January 2018 / 9:08 pm

    Best of luck to both of you on Monday. I remember when Mummy Hew went back to work and all the emotions we went through, it bought it all back reading this. You will all be great and remember, this is your journey….and what a fantastic journey you are all on.

    • Ross Hunt
      13th January 2018 / 9:12 pm

      I’m just going to try and embrace it. I know there going to be loads of changes on a parenting journey and this is just another one of them. Besides, it’ll give me something different to write about šŸ˜‚

  2. 13th January 2018 / 10:09 pm

    Good luck on Monday:) You will do great šŸ™‚

  3. 14th January 2018 / 3:55 pm

    Good luck and it sounds like you have it covered. Baby first…everything else can wait.

    • Ross Hunt
      14th January 2018 / 4:27 pm

      That’s going to be the goal. Hopefully everything will be fine, I guess only time will tell šŸ˜¬

  4. hampersandhiccups
    15th January 2018 / 7:51 pm

    After the first exhausting day you’ll get the hang of it and a new routine. Plus you’ll appreciate her nap times so much more! Good for you for not shipping her off to day care!

    • Ross Hunt
      15th January 2018 / 8:30 pm

      Day one has been draining but really fun at the same time. Had the odd difficult moment, but that’s the way it does. Gave me something to vlog and blog about šŸ˜‚

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